I do have one question for you.
I too have been around and in my travels have found many younger american men in latin america who are fat, dress like thugs and act like complete asses not to mention immature as high school students.
I usually used one of the dating sites, had 3 o 4different email addresses, open up messenger on different times of day for the different messengers and my goal was to see 3 women a day at least when I went down and if I could, I would squeeze one in for lunch.
I read everything you said.
Most guys have too much approach anxiety to do it, but the fact is that the logistics are on your side.
I couldn´t make out a thing! Well I can tell you I am one of those older men you speak of.
You can spend nights in a jungle treehouse, play around on beach havens, and trek through cloud forests, amongst other things.
This one impressed me the entire time we were together.