This pain might come from feeling isolated or unloved.
The counsellor will talk to you about your life in general — how you feel about your relationships with friends and family, and any areas where you feel things are difficult.
A VPN creates a secure, encrypted tunnel between your computer and a server managed by the VPN company; when your traffic is moving through this tunnel no-one, including your internet service provider, is able to see where the traffic is coming from.
It can give you ideas, or help you get in touch with what turns you on.
Mindgeek, which operates several of the world's most popular porn sites has expressed support for this in the past.
After the ban comes into effect, every for-profit pornography website that is accessible in the United Kingdom will need to have some sort of age-verification system in place.
While almost every pornographic website in the UK is blocked by an age verification system, that does not apply to websites you access through a VPN.
In another video, Tom said: "You wouldn't believe it, we're on the plane to Manchester, over Wales.