If you people are sincere in relationship and have true love, then must use Birth Control protection, do not raise children, try to get job in other state and settle there as married couple, there you can raise your family, but so far you are here, either you stop this relationship or do as I mentioned above I agree with many of the others in that this probably happens a lot more than people like to admit.
Or if you want support for how the sexual side started.
I just want to remind you that with discussions such as this, this is what Psychforums says in relation to this.
Which would only mean one thing.
Do you have a therapist to talk any of this through with? Also it will be a learning experience she taking care of him is another learning step towards her distant future motherhood.
What if he molested her while she was younger and that's the reason why she is acting like that? What do you all think? It is a great deal more common than people think.
I'm not trying to justify her behavior as being ok, just explaining.