I think the best way to get past it is to meet somebody else and start a relationship with him, so you can see that there are much better options.
I am very cautious with guys and sex and relationships.
Sounds to me like you are serious.
My mom was also in the house but in another part while all this happened.
Please also note that discussions about Incest in this forum are only in relation to abuse.
I still jack off to pictures of her.
From last 2 years I am sexually attracted to her and stare at her many times especially when she wears small clothes or changes the clothes in front of me.
Does it sound like something happened? But thanks for your input just the same.